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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Buy bare bones dorm crap, don't go for everything.  Let them tell you in a month what else they may need.  Each kid is differnt, some are best do the set up the room, take out to lunch/dinner and OG, others may need more time.  You know your child best.  If the college has a freshman orientation thingie before the rest of the school gets to campus, they will separate the parents and kids the first event.  You leave, the kids stay.

I have boys, so my list will be different.

They will need a credit card.  Low max balance
They will need a bank account with an ATM card.
They will need sheets, blanket/comforter, shower bucket, two sets of towels/wash clothes, beach towel, rug(frequently required),small fridge (no need for a microwave), shower shoes, a cup/fork/knife/spoon,plate,mug, small cutting board.  
Buy them new underwear and new socks every fall. 
Make sure they have detergent for clothes washing and deodorant to last until winter break, and Clorox wipes.  
Don't worry about snack and drinks- they can get them.  
Don't worry about what should be on the walls, they will figure that out themselves.
Buy them some university logo stuff.  (T-shirt, shorts?)

Have a few conversations over the summer about safety. [b]Talk to them about being the guy that girls trust and to look out for anyone who may be making inappropriate choices and help them in the moment get to a safe place[/b].  Being kind and helpful goes a long way.  Do not leave your drink, have it in your hand at all times.  No sex when drunk or with anyone who is.  Join a fun club that interests you.  [/quote

How I wish more parents raised their sons like this!  Thank you![/quote]

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