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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just on the off chance that this isn't a troll (which makes me shudder to think), OP you should save all that money adoption would cost you and invest it in a good therapist for you, a divorce lawyer for your wife and a vasectomy for the sake of humankind. [/quote]

Your lack of introspection is astounding. There are dozens upon dozens of threads on this forum of people whose relationships suffer because they stop being attracted to each other, and those threads are full of sympathetic replies. I see a way to avoid that future, at essentially zero cost since we'd still get to raise and love a kid together, and you think I need therapy and divorce and I'm terrible. Try thinking things through a bit more.[/quote]

PP here. I hope you're kidding. Because if you truly think that preganancy is the only reason your wife's body will change, you are majorly delusional. People age, gravity takes effect, as do medications and lifestyle choices. Would you discourage your wife from getting life saving medical treatment because she'll be less attractive afterwards?

It's a fact of life that attraction will decrease. If you're really going to make your happiness depend solely on having a wife with a hot body, then you will definitely benefit from therapy to help you make your peace with said fact of life, before you die an unhappy, bitter, lonely man.

Maybe some perspective would help you. The people who post about superficial issues like that are in the vast minority. How do you think so many other people make it work and keep happy marriages, despite pregnancies? Focus on that. Focus on the fact that you have a wife who loves you enough to want to give you children. And get over yourself. [/quote]

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