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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's a little weird that a dude sleeps around casually but gets guilty and finds it necessary to hurt you with information you don't need.[/quote]

I think it is a different question of if he should have been that honest and different people have different preferences.  In the DCUM threads on marriage infidelity there is a camp that wouldn't want to know and wouldn't want their spouse to be honest and say "why blow up my world with your guilt".  There is also a camp that wants to know and be able to make decisions with all the facts.

I think my thought is once I got serious about DH when we were dating is don't do something I knew would hurt him.  Cheating, whether he found out or not, would hurt our relationship.  I also try to put a light to my actions and think, what if the situation was reversed, would I be cool if he did X?  [/quote]

Yeah, but they were not exclusive just casually dating when the guy slept with someone who he also was casually dating.   The guy shows poor judgement...  Dumb.[/quote]

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