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[quote=Anonymous]PP here who was describing how to try to initiate slowly with your wife. Now you've added new facts. The whole "she doesn't have time for me but has time to train for a marathon" is BULLSHIT, my friend. BULLSHIT.

You're not getting anywhere with her by cuddling on the couch and slowly trying to get your groove back. She has put major road blocks in your way. You guys need to talk. Intimacy is a requirement for many people. You have the right to it and if she chooses not to be the giver than there are steps to take. I know this is hard but you have to confront her on this. In even stronger terms than you have before. And if she's not getting it, then become even more blunt.  Sex is as important as dinner. What if she were forbidding you to eat dinner every single night of your life? It wouldn't take you long to say "hey. Wait a minute. I like dinner. I need dinner. And I'd like to eat dinner with you. But if you've decided to give up dinner, that's fine, but that doesn't mean I have to. I guess I'm going to go eat dinner with someone else."[/quote]

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