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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yeah, see in my house, taking a load off her doesn't fix anything. She'll just pick up new activities to make her exhausted. At the moment, it's marathon training.

End result is, I end up doing more and more of the necessary stuff, while she ends up doing more and more discretionary stuff that exhausts her and still doesn't result in sex. [/quote]

This was me (I'm the wife), so I found an affair partner.  Now my exH can spend his time doing whatever he wants and I can spend my energy on sex. Win win.[/quote]

Likewise; husband here.  I easily do well over half of the housework and chores at this stage -- there's no correlation between the two.  Repeated initiations -- not just at sex, but cuddling, snuggling, PDA, etc -- over multiple months yielded multiple rejections.   After sitting down and having a long discussion, it comes out that she's just not interested in having sex -- with anyone -- anymore.  She spelled out her rationalization, which will stay between the two of us.  I sympathize and feel sorry for her, but I'm basically looking at a sexless marriage for a long, long time -- we've got a young daughter who I want to be around, and the idea of divorce and split custody is heartbreaking.  [/quote]

It isn't sex. it is sex with you. I say this as a wife. Women are not meant to be monogamous.

Did she give you a hall pass??
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