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[quote=Anonymous]I agree with PP that kids don't know the difference between separation and divorce, but most divorces with kids take a year to finalize. A year is an appropriate minimum amount of time for a child to process the break up of the family, and get used to the new reality. It's also an appropriate minimum amount of time for the ex-spouses to do the work to figure out how they contributed to the marriage failing, and take steps to change those behaviors. Personally, I wouldn't date at all for that year because I would want to clear my own head, and focus on making the transition as smooth as possible for my kids. But if you're going to date, I would wait as long as possible, and at least a year, before you introduce your new boyfriend/girlfriend to your kids.[/quote]
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