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Reply to "Do you judge women who are in abusive relationships?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Women know that there's a good chance they'll be killed if they leave. I can't judge that. [b]I just assume they had a f'ed up family of origin to let it get that bad[/b].[/quote] Not necessarily. A friend stayed in her horrible marriage for 5 years because her parents' marriage was perfect. I've known the family since HS, her childhood was loving and stable and the parents' relationship is really like a fairy tale kind of love. They respect marriage and almost revered this man so she didn't feel they would understand or even believe her. Like her mother, she is US born but married a somewhat older man from their culture. On the outside, her ex is the model immigrant husband and dad. In reality, he forced her to quit her job as soon as she got pregnant. Her parents interpreted this as he wanted to pamper her and was worried about the baby. Yeah, because beating your wife is good for the baby.[/quote]
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