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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As others have said, primary and secondary infertility are two very different things.  Having gone through both I honestly cannot say which is worse.  With secondary you need a different type of support though.  It's different because you now have the sadness of your child not having a sibling and being around pregnant women all the time through mother's groups, etc.  Women facing primary infertility cannot understand these things.  I wish I knew you in person OP because I think I could help you having recently gone through this.  Where are you located?[/quote]

I have also gone through both but had a different experience.  I literally could barely look at a pregnant person or little kids without being in tears when I was in the thick of primary infertility.  I finally was successful with IVF and never went on birth control after my baby was born hoping I would get lucky and get pregnant naturally since i was unexplained.  It took another 2 years and ended up doing IVF again and am now pregnant with my second.  I was very sad struggling to get pregnant again the second time but it wasn't that gut wrenching, questioning god feeling that i had the first time aground.  Can't even compare. I start crying just thinking about what it was like trying to get pregnant that first time. [/quote]

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