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Reply to "Found out that DH had gay sex many years ago"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote]He was raped as a child and was involved in a sexual relationship with an older man when he was 20 (almost 25 years ago). [/quote] So, these are two separate events? I think the real test is whether he is into *you* and is able to have a decent sex life with *you*. From what you said in your post, he is clearly into you and you have a good sex life. So, I would be inclined to not worry about him being "secretly gay." Married, closeted, gay men don't typically have, great, longstanding sexual relationships with their wives. I do agree that therapy is a good idea, but I would just suggest it in a non-threatening way, and let him decide what he wants to do. [/quote]
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