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[quote=Anonymous]I dated my DH 10 years and have been married for 8. Like OP my family is upper class and his is lower middle. My parents are fairly judgemental (but my FIl is not very likable these days) but the only time they were all together was our wedding. There were other times I wish they could have been (my daughter's baptism) and I should have just put my foot down / expected everyone to act like grow ups. The wedding did present its own challenges (for example, my parents expected a certain level of rehearsal dinner but my in-laws wanted to host it so we did a spaghetti dinner) but it was all fine. I remember having a great time that weekend. The marriage has its own challenges - including dealing with each other's families - but that doesn't make me regret marrying him. We actually had a conversation a few months before the wedding - I was getting really cold feet and had a lot of fantasies of running off with a friend of his (who is terribly suited for me). We were able to discuss my fears / thoughts and having those hard conversations is one of the things that keeps us connected. [/quote]

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