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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It might be common, but it means that you shouldn't be marrying him. You know deep down that it's true. Call it off now before you are stuck with a kid with him. [/quote]

NP. I couldn't disagree more with PP. People put so much pressure on themselves to feel head over heels in love and giddy with excitement to get married. I did not feel that way, and I made myself crazy because I thought I didn't love him "enough" to get married. I do think you owe it to yourself to work out your feelings and figure out how much of your anxiety is due to true red flags in your relationship vs unrealistic expectations of what marriage is. No marriage is perfect. Everyone deals with their spouse's imperfections and many deal with family issues. I had doubts before I got married but I realized that the doubts were due to my fantasies about love and romance rather than an indicator of whether we would be happy together. I'm so grateful that I didn't walk away from him because he is an amazing husband and we have a great life together. [/quote]

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