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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't feel excited about marrying my fiance. The whole wedding planning situation makes me stressed out and anxious. I don't daydream about my dress or[b] being his mrs. [/b] Is this okay?[/quote]

Well, thank God for that.  Barf.

If you're not excited about the wedding, that's one thing.  Planning can be stressful, and not being into the dress/cake/whatever is not a big deal.  But you should be excited about being married to this person.  You should be looking forward to spending your life with him.  It's normal to be a little nervous--it's a big commitment, and no one really knows what the future holds.  But there should be some feelings of positive anticipation, too.  If you just feel meh about it, I would take the time to really reflect on whether you really want to get married, and whether you really want to marry this person.   [/quote]

This is OP.

I love my day to day life with my fiance. He goes above and beyond to show me he loves me and makes me comfortable. I just have massive anxeity about the wedding due to our families. My family is upper class; his is lower middle. Our familes do not get along at all and each sets of parents has their requirements. I just get anxiety thinking about it all.[/quote]

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