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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yeah man, she sounds super needy, wanting her husband to be nice to her before she has sex with him. If my DH came home and a giant d to me I would also lose my desire. [/quote]
She never said he wasn't nice to her, or that he is a giant D to her. She said [i][b]things he says or does end up killing my desire to f**k him[/b][/i] which could mean he's the nicest H in the world, brought home flowers and cooked her dinner, but he left the milk out of the fridge, and mentioned something trivial that she happens disagrees with. A man can do 99 things right but the woman will latch on to the 1 wrong thing (even if it wasn't intentional or directed at the woman). That one thing will displace any chance of sex, it becomes her excuse to herself why she isn't interested in sex. Men don't operate this way, we are not keeping relationship score or looking for reasons to NOT have sex. We have a sexdrive that won't dry up if the wife is only 99% perfect.

[quote=Anonymous]I gotta be honest sex starved men of DCUM. I think that most of you need to look inward and just be a nicer and more considerate and affectionate partner. Just because, not to get laid, because if I had major relationship problems and my DH was only buttering me up when he wanted sex that wouldn't work either. If you're not having sex you have a foundational relationship issue to work out. [/quote]
I agree on being a nice/considerate/affectionate partner [u]just because[/u]. But the fact you see DH being nice as "buttering you up for sex" reveals you may have a transactional attitude towards sex.

[quote=Anonymous]And I know it sucks but yes the majority of women as they age don't want to have sex 6 times a week (I know you exist super hot 45 year old lady who doesn't look a day over 28 and makes people jealous and gives your husband a morning bj every day, we're not talking about you!). Life is a spectrum, you have to adjust with your partner. [/quote]
These same women "pretended" to want frequent sex earlier in the relationship, but then later will prioritize everything else (facebook, DCUM, netflix) over a regular sexlife. That is not a spectrum, that is a selfish choice to watch netflix. One common way that men "adjust" is to pursue a younger girl who is still has sexual interests. Some men will "adjust" like this without first ending the marriage.
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