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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Depends on what kind of relationship you want.

If he is a confidant go getter, he WILL text you if he is interested.

If you're ok with a shy, more passive guy, then go ahead and text.

I wouldn't be. [/quote]

The problem with this is that it assumes that he is passive and shy because he isn't asking you out. It's likely that you are one of many women on his radar. Men don't usually just have one woman that they pine after and "chase" until she relents, like some Nora Ephron screenplay. Men are more like door to door salesman. And today, you are competing with things like Tinder, where a guy can just "swipe" dozens of women at a time.[/quote]

I am the PP.  I get your point, which is why i wrote that [b]if he is interested[/b].

It's best not to waste time as a woman with men who are only luke warm interested. My DH pursued me very hotly, and to this day he is a very attentive, loving husband. I honestly think this is because I am very much his ideal type, hence his focused pursuit early on.

I've seen too many women date men who are "meh" about them - it's just a recipe for disaster, imho.

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+1. You want him to be really into you from the get go, enough to pursue you. Otherwise he might just be lukewarm and take what he gets, which is a recipe for disaster in the long term. [/quote]

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