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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't see how not having multiple life-long friends is anomalous behavior. People drift away. I'm still friendly with a few of my college mates. However, we live on the opposite sides of the country/world, we have other obligations. Yes, there is time for an occational email or phone call, but that's about it.

I lived in another state for 10 years and befriended someone. Now we moved again, and all that's left are emails. Which is cool. Again, with FT work and a young child, there's hardly time or energy for anything more involved. I move it's the story for majority of people. What's different seems rather anomalous to me.[/quote]

I'm similar in that I've moved frequently for work and have a high pressure and time consuming career.  I'm also married.  I do have childhood friends.  That being said,[b] I think your story still tells someone that you don't value friendships as much as others do.[/b]   Same could be said of me.  If you did then you'd still make time to have friends despite the young child and the move.  Doesn't mean there is something wrong with you.  [/quote]

I agree. I meant this to say it doesn't make me crazy. Or I am not relationship material or something.

I also think it's strange to say people like me are jealous of spouse's friends. DH befriends people easier and generally has more desire to reach out to people. It hasn't occurred to me to be jealous of that. The life-long thing didn't work out for him as well, so I'm glad I didn't know it was a red flag :lol: [/quote]

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