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[quote=Anonymous]Anything can be overcome if the two of you want it.  Fact.  But you cannot, I repeat cannot, want it enough for both of you.

Therapy is necessary.  In your scenario, where she is actively with another man, I doubt she will go with you to work on things.  Go alone.  Mourn what you have lost.  Process everything.

The best thing you can do now is focus on yourself and the kids.  Find a hobby.  Take up running.  You can't control her actions, but you can control your response.

If she comes back, you'll be ready to deal with that then.

I was in your shoes a few months ago, only my husband was having an emotional affair when he sprung the "I'm not in love with you" on me.  He left for a few days after I caught him, presumably to find out if she would leave her husband to be with him.  Came back, wants to reconcile.

At the start I was desperate to keep my family together.  Now I think I'm done with him, and it is hard because he is doing everything in his power to get me back.  But I think I'm done. [/quote]

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