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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op - slap yourself and wake up! you need to man up for the sake of your kids. sometimes shitty things happen to good people for whatever reasons. but it is what it is. you can only deal with what's in front of you - your dang kids! [/quote]

I agree.  And don't compare yourself to this schmuck.  You're killing yourself with that.[/quote]

Well. I never thought it would happen to me so props to all those who have been left behind in a divorce. It's not easy at all. I really appreciate all responses. I need to mourn this and move on. As someone said earlier, hanging on is so incredibly painful. So heart wrenching. I wish I were just a cold hearted dick and didn't care. But I am angry at what might have been. The shared future. Dreams. Jeez. [/quote]

OP, Everybody is a tough guy until the shit hits the fan. Your wife is clearly having  mental health crisis. Your caring and compassion is normal. Morning the loss of what might have been is healhty. You need to let this play out and be as supportive as you can to your wife so she does not go off the deep end and try to get custody and bring your children into that mess. Your children need a healthy mom, married or not.

In the meantime, limbo sucks! Plan to move on... if things change cross that bridge when you come to it. [/quote]

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