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[quote=Anonymous]I feel badly for your daughter if she has any idea of what's going on here...that "friend" of yours is a real jerk. Since you work with her, I wouldn't want to be mean back to her but I'd just be very straightforward w/ her and tell her yes, it was your idea to do the girl's night and you wish that you could still do it but that when you proposed having a girl's night you didn't realize that that would mean having to find childcare for your daughter which is not do-able for you and that you cannot attend if your daughter can't attend. Be clear that you are not trying to force her to invite your daughter (because at this point, knowing her (and her kids') nastiness and meanness toward your daughter, you probably don't want her to begrudgingly agree to having your daughter come anyway) but that it's just unfortunate that this is the situation. I doubt she will realize why she is in the wrong here because she sounds like just an awful person but hopefully you can resist the temptation to be mean back to her, for the sake of preserving your work relationship, but can just stop having any kind of social relationship w/ her outside of work.[/quote]
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