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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]"But we do go to soccer games together, celebrate Christmas, birthdays, thanksgiving, etc." That's a mess, move on and forget about his ex gf's as well. [/quote]

Your advice is to avoid all events of my children that my ex-H will attend. That is a mess.

I am remarried with 2 more children and you think I have not "moved on".

I don't think about his ex gf.... she thinks about me.

Most OW are crazy and if you don't know what they look like they can be stalking you and you would never know. My advice to the OP is find out what she looks like so you can be sure she is not going to do something crazy.

If I did not know what she looked like I would not have known she was stalking me... I got a restraining order.

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You're using you kids as an excuse to lurk. There's no reason to do holidays together. Most couples (you and your husband) get the kids on their day and celebrate. Take them to your family, your husbands etc. The ex does the same.

Either that or you are still married to the cheater.[/quote]

No .. who am I lurking at? The OW is long gone from our life, H never spoke to the OW after they were caught, he ghosted her.

My H comes to our house for birthdays, Christmas dinner, and Thanksgiving. You think he is going to throw a birthday party, make a Christmas/Thanksgiving dinner at his house. I don't' think so and it would make the kids sad to think he is alone for Christmas and thanksgiving dinner.

He gets the kids whenever he wants. I am being a role model to my kids and showing that you don't hold onto resentment, that people make mistakes and life goes on... that is the way my kids will grow up. If you want the kids dropped at your driveway because you hate your ex... that is your prerogative. My brothers still like my H and their kids will always call him uncle. He has the option not to come, but the invitation will always be open. We will do graduations together and my kids won't have to worry about their wedding and their feuding divorced parents. [/quote]

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