Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

"But we do go to soccer games together, celebrate Christmas, birthdays, thanksgiving, etc." That's a mess, move on and forget about his ex gf's as well.

Your advice is to avoid all events of my children that my ex-H will attend. That is a mess.

I am remarried with 2 more children and you think I have not "moved on".

I don't think about his ex gf.... she thinks about me.

Most OW are crazy and if you don't know what they look like they can be stalking you and you would never know. My advice to the OP is find out what she looks like so you can be sure she is not going to do something crazy.

If I did not know what she looked like I would not have known she was stalking me... I got a restraining order.

You're asking how to break into her FB page but you aren't thinking about her, she's stalking and thinking about you? Alrighty then.

I am not OP. I advise OP to get a picture and or two, so she knows who to look for... Watch your back... Move on.

Start your own thread.

Yeah right op.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

"But we do go to soccer games together, celebrate Christmas, birthdays, thanksgiving, etc." That's a mess, move on and forget about his ex gf's as well.

Your advice is to avoid all events of my children that my ex-H will attend. That is a mess.

I am remarried with 2 more children and you think I have not "moved on".

I don't think about his ex gf.... she thinks about me.

Most OW are crazy and if you don't know what they look like they can be stalking you and you would never know. My advice to the OP is find out what she looks like so you can be sure she is not going to do something crazy.

If I did not know what she looked like I would not have known she was stalking me... I got a restraining order.

You're asking how to break into her FB page but you aren't thinking about her, she's stalking and thinking about you? Alrighty then.

I am not OP. I advise OP to get a picture and or two, so she knows who to look for... Watch your back... Move on.

Anonymous wrote:

"But we do go to soccer games together, celebrate Christmas, birthdays, thanksgiving, etc." That's a mess, move on and forget about his ex gf's as well.

Your advice is to avoid all events of my children that my ex-H will attend. That is a mess.

I am remarried with 2 more children and you think I have not "moved on".

I don't think about his ex gf.... she thinks about me.

Most OW are crazy and if you don't know what they look like they can be stalking you and you would never know. My advice to the OP is find out what she looks like so you can be sure she is not going to do something crazy.

If I did not know what she looked like I would not have known she was stalking me... I got a restraining order.

You're asking how to break into her FB page but you aren't thinking about her, she's stalking and thinking about you? Alrighty then.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

"But we do go to soccer games together, celebrate Christmas, birthdays, thanksgiving, etc." That's a mess, move on and forget about his ex gf's as well.

Your advice is to avoid all events of my children that my ex-H will attend. That is a mess.

I am remarried with 2 more children and you think I have not "moved on".

I don't think about his ex gf.... she thinks about me.

Most OW are crazy and if you don't know what they look like they can be stalking you and you would never know. My advice to the OP is find out what she looks like so you can be sure she is not going to do something crazy.

If I did not know what she looked like I would not have known she was stalking me... I got a restraining order.

You're using you kids as an excuse to lurk. There's no reason to do holidays together. Most couples (you and your husband) get the kids on their day and celebrate. Take them to your family, your husbands etc. The ex does the same.

Either that or you are still married to the cheater.

No .. who am I lurking at? The OW is long gone from our life, H never spoke to the OW after they were caught, he ghosted her.

My H comes to our house for birthdays, Christmas dinner, and Thanksgiving. You think he is going to throw a birthday party, make a Christmas/Thanksgiving dinner at his house. I don't' think so and it would make the kids sad to think he is alone for Christmas and thanksgiving dinner.

He gets the kids whenever he wants. I am being a role model to my kids and showing that you don't hold onto resentment, that people make mistakes and life goes on... that is the way my kids will grow up. If you want the kids dropped at your driveway because you hate your ex... that is your prerogative. My brothers still like my H and their kids will always call him uncle. He has the option not to come, but the invitation will always be open. We will do graduations together and my kids won't have to worry about their wedding and their feuding divorced parents.

Anonymous wrote:

"But we do go to soccer games together, celebrate Christmas, birthdays, thanksgiving, etc." That's a mess, move on and forget about his ex gf's as well.

Your advice is to avoid all events of my children that my ex-H will attend. That is a mess.

I am remarried with 2 more children and you think I have not "moved on".

I don't think about his ex gf.... she thinks about me.

Most OW are crazy and if you don't know what they look like they can be stalking you and you would never know. My advice to the OP is find out what she looks like so you can be sure she is not going to do something crazy.

If I did not know what she looked like I would not have known she was stalking me... I got a restraining order.

You're using you kids as an excuse to lurk. There's no reason to do holidays together. Most couples (you and your husband) get the kids on their day and celebrate. Take them to your family, your husbands etc. The ex does the same.

Either that or you are still married to the cheater.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You want to see the Ow's page? Go work on your marriage.

If OW didn't want us in their life they should have stayed out of ours.

You can't be in something you weren't invited into. Talk to your husband. Maybe if you focused on him instead of fb you wouldn't be in this situation.

I think coming to my kids soccer game after my husband went no contact would not be considered "invited". Go away! You were just a mistake, and not his biggest.

Husband as in current. He was the mistake fyi.

"But we do go to soccer games together, celebrate Christmas, birthdays, thanksgiving, etc." That's a mess, move on and forget about his ex gf's as well.

Your advice is to avoid all events of my children that my ex-H will attend. That is a mess.

I am remarried with 2 more children and you think I have not "moved on".

I don't think about his ex gf.... she thinks about me.

Most OW are crazy and if you don't know what they look like they can be stalking you and you would never know. My advice to the OP is find out what she looks like so you can be sure she is not going to do something crazy.

If I did not know what she looked like I would not have known she was stalking me... I got a restraining order.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He invited her into your lives to begin with. Sounds like an awfully big mistake. How many ons know about children? Never mind soccer teams? Lol Be mad at him.

Please the OW invented stalking

Being angry is a useless emotion. I can hold two adult accountable for trying to ruin my children's life. I can hold my H responsible and The OW.

I can do everything to keep his psycho whore away from my kids. It's hard to do that when you don't know what she looks like. Women are crazy, the best of them.... The ones that lack self confidence and lower themselves to being somebody's side piece take crazy too a whole other level.

Check out this board during thanksgiving and Christmas or in the summer when men are vacationing with their wives and leave the OW behind and don't text them all week. They go bat shit crazy.

When there is an OW a lurking the responsible one needs to keep their kids' lives stable and that means keeping OW away from their children.

Thank god for restraining orders.

This is a sad post. You're staying married to a pos cheater, that's the most pathetic thing. You're no good husband will simply find another loser standing on a street corner. Get rid of him, get most of the assets and find a nice man with good morals to raise your children with.
You're in a position if some woman smiles at him you won't know if she's also sleeping with him because there is NO trust. Your denial is causing you to focus on one of many women he's been with. He's the real problem, and so are you because you are a co-dependent in a sick relationship. Get out.

He won't be so smug and happy when another man is calling his kids dad. I've seen that more often than not with friends.

No, he is my ex. But we do go to soccer games together, celebrate Christmas, birthdays, thanksgiving, etc. I am remarried. My kids do not call my new H "dad", but his kids call me "mom" because their mother passed and I adopted them. I don't try to make my kids hate their dad, that is immature and ridiculous.

We have joint custody and he sees at least one kid every day.

It's been 6 years an OW still lurks (she is constantly asking our friends about us) ... sad!

Who said to make your kids hate their dad? That's a stretch, but obvious from all your posts you haven't moved on in any sense.

"But we do go to soccer games together, celebrate Christmas, birthdays, thanksgiving, etc." That's a mess, move on and forget about his ex gf's as well.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He invited her into your lives to begin with. Sounds like an awfully big mistake. How many ons know about children? Never mind soccer teams? Lol Be mad at him.

Please the OW invented stalking

Being angry is a useless emotion. I can hold two adult accountable for trying to ruin my children's life. I can hold my H responsible and The OW.

I can do everything to keep his psycho whore away from my kids. It's hard to do that when you don't know what she looks like. Women are crazy, the best of them.... The ones that lack self confidence and lower themselves to being somebody's side piece take crazy too a whole other level.

Check out this board during thanksgiving and Christmas or in the summer when men are vacationing with their wives and leave the OW behind and don't text them all week. They go bat shit crazy.

When there is an OW a lurking the responsible one needs to keep their kids' lives stable and that means keeping OW away from their children.

Thank god for restraining orders.

This is a sad post. You're staying married to a pos cheater, that's the most pathetic thing. You're no good husband will simply find another loser standing on a street corner. Get rid of him, get most of the assets and find a nice man with good morals to raise your children with.
You're in a position if some woman smiles at him you won't know if she's also sleeping with him because there is NO trust. Your denial is causing you to focus on one of many women he's been with. He's the real problem, and so are you because you are a co-dependent in a sick relationship. Get out.

He won't be so smug and happy when another man is calling his kids dad. I've seen that more often than not with friends.

No, he is my ex. But we do go to soccer games together, celebrate Christmas, birthdays, thanksgiving, etc. I am remarried. My kids do not call my new H "dad", but his kids call me "mom" because their mother passed and I adopted them. I don't try to make my kids hate their dad, that is immature and ridiculous.

We have joint custody and he sees at least one kid every day.

It's been 6 years an OW still lurks (she is constantly asking our friends about us) ... sad!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He invited her into your lives to begin with. Sounds like an awfully big mistake. How many ons know about children? Never mind soccer teams? Lol Be mad at him.

Please the OW invented stalking

Being angry is a useless emotion. I can hold two adult accountable for trying to ruin my children's life. I can hold my H responsible and The OW.

I can do everything to keep his psycho whore away from my kids. It's hard to do that when you don't know what she looks like. Women are crazy, the best of them.... The ones that lack self confidence and lower themselves to being somebody's side piece take crazy too a whole other level.

Check out this board during thanksgiving and Christmas or in the summer when men are vacationing with their wives and leave the OW behind and don't text them all week. They go bat shit crazy.

When there is an OW a lurking the responsible one needs to keep their kids' lives stable and that means keeping OW away from their children.

Thank god for restraining orders.

This is a sad post. You're staying married to a pos cheater, that's the most pathetic thing. You're no good husband will simply find another loser standing on a street corner. Get rid of him, get most of the assets and find a nice man with good morals to raise your children with.
You're in a position if some woman smiles at him you won't know if she's also sleeping with him because there is NO trust. Your denial is causing you to focus on one of many women he's been with. He's the real problem, and so are you because you are a co-dependent in a sick relationship. Get out.

He won't be so smug and happy when another man is calling his kids dad. I've seen that more often than not with friends.

Anonymous wrote:He invited her into your lives to begin with. Sounds like an awfully big mistake. How many ons know about children? Never mind soccer teams? Lol Be mad at him.

Divorce him, you're in a fake marriage...forget about the whore. She'll find another family to try and break up.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He invited her into your lives to begin with. Sounds like an awfully big mistake. How many ons know about children? Never mind soccer teams? Lol Be mad at him.

Please the OW invented stalking

Being angry is a useless emotion. I can hold two adult accountable for trying to ruin my children's life. I can hold my H responsible and The OW.

I can do everything to keep his psycho whore away from my kids. It's hard to do that when you don't know what she looks like. Women are crazy, the best of them.... The ones that lack self confidence and lower themselves to being somebody's side piece take crazy too a whole other level.

Check out this board during thanksgiving and Christmas or in the summer when men are vacationing with their wives and leave the OW behind and don't text them all week. They go bat shit crazy.

When there is an OW a lurking the responsible one needs to keep their kids' lives stable and that means keeping OW away from their children.

Thank god for restraining orders.

Are you the OP or just a bitter scorned woman who has been hijacking the thread?

Another OW that recognizes herself in the description. I am happily married with 4 kids, a great husband (who was widowed), adopted his 2 children ... we are golden, sorry you are not.

Another silly woman who thinks that anyone who calls her on her drama and foolishness must be an OW

Where are you from OP? This thread is unnecessarily aggressive and you do seem unstable. I am not someones AP either.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He invited her into your lives to begin with. Sounds like an awfully big mistake. How many ons know about children? Never mind soccer teams? Lol Be mad at him.

Please the OW invented stalking

Being angry is a useless emotion. I can hold two adult accountable for trying to ruin my children's life. I can hold my H responsible and The OW.

I can do everything to keep his psycho whore away from my kids. It's hard to do that when you don't know what she looks like. Women are crazy, the best of them.... The ones that lack self confidence and lower themselves to being somebody's side piece take crazy too a whole other level.

Check out this board during thanksgiving and Christmas or in the summer when men are vacationing with their wives and leave the OW behind and don't text them all week. They go bat shit crazy.

When there is an OW a lurking the responsible one needs to keep their kids' lives stable and that means keeping OW away from their children.

Thank god for restraining orders.

Are you the OP or just a bitter scorned woman who has been hijacking the thread?

Another OW that recognizes herself in the description. I am happily married with 4 kids, a great husband (who was widowed), adopted his 2 children ... we are golden, sorry you are not.

Another silly woman who thinks that anyone who calls her on her drama and foolishness must be an OW

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He invited her into your lives to begin with. Sounds like an awfully big mistake. How many ons know about children? Never mind soccer teams? Lol Be mad at him.

Please the OW invented stalking

Being angry is a useless emotion. I can hold two adult accountable for trying to ruin my children's life. I can hold my H responsible and The OW.

I can do everything to keep his psycho whore away from my kids. It's hard to do that when you don't know what she looks like. Women are crazy, the best of them.... The ones that lack self confidence and lower themselves to being somebody's side piece take crazy too a whole other level.

Check out this board during thanksgiving and Christmas or in the summer when men are vacationing with their wives and leave the OW behind and don't text them all week. They go bat shit crazy.

When there is an OW a lurking the responsible one needs to keep their kids' lives stable and that means keeping OW away from their children.

Thank god for restraining orders.

Are you the OP or just a bitter scorned woman who has been hijacking the thread?

Another OW that recognizes herself in the description. I am happily married with 4 kids, a great husband (who was widowed), adopted his 2 children ... we are golden, sorry you are not.