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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Get a wife of your own. Wife: Stays at home and thinks, plans and executes everything in your family's life while you work at the office or play out of the office. [/quote] This. Hire a more expensive nanny/household manager or second person for that role. My feeling is that if DH doesn't want to do his share, then he can pay someone else to do it (so can you, obviously). You do as much as you want/can handle, and outsource the rest. This won't change you being angry that DH isn't a better husband and father, but it will hopefully change your feelings of resentment. You can enjoy your children and the rest of your life. This is what a high income can buy you. Use it to keep your family together.[/quote] +1 I've been throwing around the idea of hiring someone to come in and do some cooking/prepping/light cleaning and I don't make anywhere near what you do, OP. I would definitely look at outsourcing more of those types of tasks if I was you. [/quote]
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