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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm sure this has been posted a thousand times before, but I need to vent.  DH is fat and gross.  He was a bit overweight when we met, but it didn't bother me because we were very active and we enjoyed physically demanding hobbies (running, biking, etc.)  We loved doing those things together and he even lost some weight and was pretty fit for many years.

Fast forward 15 years:  he has become extremely lazy (physically), and any down time is spent laying down looking at the phone or reading.  He has gotten REALLY fat.  We never had great sexual chemistry, but now it is utterly gone.  He is so fat and out of shape that he is even worse in bed - it's almost like it is too much effort to move around very much.  He is practically listless when we try to have sex.  And it makes his penis way smaller.  And he smells, because I swear he cannot wipe his butt very well because he is too fat and out of shape.

PHEW.

He is otherwise a really wonderful husband and father.  Good job, great with the kids, kind, supportive, generous, funny.  I am fully committed to our marriage.  We have also weathered many difficult trials together - major kid issues, death, illness, etc etc.  We have been through a lot and he is rock solid and amazing.

But this weight thing, my goodness!  I would like to feel a little sexual attraction to this man and not be completely grossed out by him physically.

I don't think there is much I can do.  We have a mutually respectful relationship and I don't believe in nagging or trying to make other people do things they don't want to do.  He knows he's overweight.  He knows I don't like it.  There's really not anything else to be done I don't think.[/quote]

Ok. [/quote]

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