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[quote=Anonymous]Op, you did not waste your life. You stayed and you tried because you were married and you had kids and you wanted them to grow up with two parents. There is nothing you could have done that would have changed his behavior. She doesn't have some magic stubbornness that you didn't have. Really, you don't know what's going on in their relationship and you won't know whether he'll become abusive until years have gone by and they're married. Abusers don't start relationships that way, you know this. Don't blame yourself for the problems he caused. Don't think there was something you could have done to make him stop abusing you and your kids. It wasn't your fault. It was him making a choice about how to behave and ultimately he is the only one with the power to control his behavior. Not you. [/quote]
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