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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Was this perhaps an abusive marriage and you aren't focusing on that in therapy?  Oddly, they can be the most difficult to dissociate from, particularly if there was a lot of gas-lighting and general mind-fuckery. [/quote] 
OP here and yes he was verbally and emotionally abusive.  But I put up with it when I should have stood up for myself and my kids, and the fact that his new GF doesn't put up with it just brings the point home.  I can't even say "she'll find out what a jerk he is" because she won't allow it.  That's what makes me feel like I wasted my life.[/quote]

Or he's behaving now because they're still in the honeymoon stage.  His true colors will come out.  He can't keep up the act forever.[/quote]

The point is that your relationship with him is over.  Stop concerning yourself with the person he is with and how their relationship is going.  It doesn't matter.  You need to focus on yourself and your kids.  [/quote]

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