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[quote=Anonymous]Never feel guilty and do not admit guilt.

if he says "don't you feel guilty?"  cut him off with "Do you feel guilty?"  If he tries, "stop trying to change the subject" respond "Don't you feel guilty?"  said very sincerely. and then walk away.

"we are talking about you" etc.  respond "We are talking about you."

Realize that people like this have a script in their mind and an expectation built around that script that has evolved with practice.  Your goal is to respond in such a way that is absolutely unexpected.  This momentarily interrupts their script and makes them pause. They hate it.

Make sure to always look them in the eye directly.  Now when other people are around, you want to look just slightly above their eyes - maybe the bridge of their nose.  This will also drive them nuts but to the casual observer it will only look like you are looking them right in the eye.  I have seen this played out and the guy couldn't control himself anymore and said "she refuses to even look me in the eye!". Lawyer sitting off to the side replied" She is looking you in the eye. I am sitting her watching her do it."  Dh keeps going about how she isn't. Result the room of people just think the DH is nuts. 
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