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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have you been to a bride's elaborate second wedding?  I have.  The second time bride's parents looked like they were incredibly uncomfortable and the toasts from the bride's side were awkward.  I also heard a lot of weird comments like comparing the bride's two weddings, etc.  So it might be uncomfortable for the bride and I don't think she should be forced into it.  Like it or not everyone will assume she wanted the big wedding because most grooms don't care.[/quote]

I agree that elaborate second weddings are weird.  If you had a big wedding the first time around, people are going to be judging you, laughing at you, and making snarky comments under their breath all throughout your second wedding.  They are also going to be remembering that they bought you a gift the first time.  Is that nice?  Nope.  But it will happen.

I get that your fiance wants a big wedding, but I think you guys have to find something that you're comfortable with, to.  What is it exactly that he wants?  Maybe he'd be happy with a big party but fine with losing some of the more formal elements.  Or a small ceremony and a big reception.  There should be a way to have the kind of wedding that makes you both reasonably happy.  [/quote]

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