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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Nope, we don't have a separation agreement yet. Because I trusted him and his lawyer when they said they wanted to do this amicably and avoid court. Their endless stalling, their proposals with outrageous demands that no sane person could agree to, put the lie to this. A little late, but I now see them for the liars they are.

And to think I held off sending my proposal in December, because I didn't want to wreck his Christmas.

I have supported our son 100% for the last 6 months and maybe 75% for the 6 months before that, [b]all out of my personal bank accounts[/b]. Also I'm paying about 2x what he's paying to our daughter's college.

So yes, I absolutely see this as him stealing from me. In the the sense that he knew I'd cave and feed and clothe our son, so he just sat back and waited for me to do 100% of it.[/quote]

This is the part you're not seeming to get.  The court will aggregate all of the accounts (except to the extent you have separate property which I suspect will be very little given the length of the marriage) and divide them in some manner.  So the money you paid out for your son is no longer part of those joint accounts so you will each get a smaller share.  The same with the money each of you paid out for your daughter's college.  Maybe you should consider a lawyer that costs a little more because the one you have doesn't seem to be doing a very good job.

The issue that each of you has to worry about at this point is whether the other is spending down/hiding the joint funds.  [/quote]

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