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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, but I don't get it. Doesn't rat race mean that you had a stressful well-paying job or something like that? Where's the money? I'm poor but I'll help my boys to pay for college since I have nothing better to do with my income.[/quote] Op here. So what happened is we moved when DS was born and I have been unemployed for a year. We are in a lower cost of living area, but lower salaries too. However, the money I saved when working, I'd like to use to buy a house in cash. DH will continue to work FT, and I will try to find a PT job that can cover additional retirement contribution plus vacation/travel and college contributions. I feel like we could have a nice life with this arrangement. [/quote] OP, this has nothing to do with being a jerk or not at this point. It has to do with being wise about how you use the money you have. You are prioritizing buying a house in cash over putting money into retirement or college savings? No, no, no. Why do you think this is a wise idea?[/quote]
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