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[quote=Anonymous]OP, if you don't want to give in to your mom's hypochondria, you are missing the point of PPs post. You cannot deal with a toxic person by being reasonable. You do have to be the adult in this situation, difficult as that must be when dealing with your mother. To look at it from your mom's side: She may never have adjusted to her role as the parent of an adult. She's still trying to tell you what to do. Most parents realize they have to back off, when their kids mature. Your mom has not matured to this point. So you have to be the adult because she's not going to get there, sad as that is for you. Go to the "doctor". Go grab a coffee at Starbucks and nurse yourself back to health. The stress caused by your mom isn't making you any better. Lying, in this case, is for a good cause. I hate lies, but if I were you, I'd do as the PP suggested. [/quote]
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