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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People rarely "turn" into something they are not initially, so keep your eyes open.

If you are fearful, don't get married. Problem solved.[/quote]

Wish I hadn't.

Got married last September. Leading up to that, we had sex 3 times a week. Since September, we've has sex TWICE. Here I am newly married 5 months and I'm on this miserable message board with a bunch of crusty old broads.

I'm seriously considering cutting bait now, because my future seems bleak. [/quote]

Cut and run, baby. [/quote]

Yes, She's talking about kids, but there is no way (first not even sure how we could conceive them). I'm thinking I'll just consider this a starter marriage.  I need to pull the plug, but I just need to get on it. I don't really care to work on this either. We shouldn't even be having this problem and even it if gets fixed temporarily, clearly sex is not a priority for her and I doubt it will change. I think her goal was just to get married.[/quote]

Oh please, no blaming others for the shitty choices you made! :wink: [/quote] Who am I blaming? I was engaged to a woman who I had sex with 3 times a week untilt he day we married. We've been married now for 5 months and we've had sex 2xs. How could I have prevented this outcome, exactly? I think my situation is unusual that it happened so quickly, for most couples it is a downward spiral over the course of years.

Regardless, I will cut and run and hopefully the next man she marries, is equally as uninterested in sex.[/quote]

So get a divorce or an annulment! If you're not having sex at five months, then you're not going to have sex at all after you have kids.

Look, you're not compatible, so walk away and start over. Changing people is impossible and a waste of time. Change yourself and your situation by ending it.

Signed,
Happily married DW for 20+  years who's watched friends go through it[/quote]

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