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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am starting to feel anger/frustration because its been 4 months since my spouse lost his job yet he hasnt sent out a single resume. He says its because he has extreme anxiety around interviewing and doesnt want to apply to just any job. As far as I can tell he spends most of his time surfing or watching TV. We don't talk about it because it quickly becomes a fight with him saying if I think he's a bum I should just leave him. How would you approach this situation?[/quote] Who is paying for the tv and internet? I'd cut both off and say I couldn't afford to keep them. He could use the public library for internet and the job search. If I am paying for all the Gracie's,<script id="gpt-impl-0.6617212845012546" src="http://partner.googleadservices.com/gpt/pubads_impl_79.js"></script> we'd be eating crappy hamburger helper until he got a job. This being unemployed thing needs to start to get a little uncomfortable. Switch to horrible cheap soap, cheap one ply toilet paper etc. [/quote] BINGO![/quote] It's called tough love. You have to make a stand and keep strong.[/quote]
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