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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This would be a deal breaker for me. It makes me so sad for you to be all the way out there with no friends. I have lived in DC since college and loved my 20s in the city. I married DH and we lived in DuPont circle and our first was 1.5 and then we moved to arlington. It was so great to be able to walk to tons of bars and restaurants, we could get together with friends at the last minute, no worries about drinking and driving home or an expensive can. If one of us didn't feel like going out, the other could pop by a bar for an hour without abandoning the other all night. We live in a house about a mile from the metro now and I really miss living in the city, but the trade off was worth it now that we are late thirties, have two kids, two cars, a big yard etc. I also stay at home and can meet up with friends and play groups easily in the suburbs.

[b]I would insist on marriage counseling and if he still doesn't agree to move, I would divorce.[/b] You are so young, you don't want to spend the rest of your life miserable because you're are never able to have any fun. It sounds like you aren't a good match for each other, it would be better to get out now while you are still young than to have kids and be resentful your whole life/[/quote]
I think you are missing the point here. You seem to think that the marriage counseling should be focused on moving to the city. Moving to the city will not guarantee happiness for OP or improve their marriage. She has already mentioned (I assume you read the previous replies) that her DH had a lively college life before her and now he's content staying at home playing video games. Also, OP can move to the city but it won't guarantee that she will make friends.

But it was nice hearing about you and your veiled pity for OP.[/quote]

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