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OP - You and DH might need a third party to help you learn to communicate better and share priorities because your daily living style sounds awful......You should try and get help for the claustrophobia which may just be a physical sign of the inner stress from your daily work/commute life.  I would at least have him be willing to look at equivalent apartments or condos in Arlington.  Also, have you thought of looking on the Maryland side to see if there are more commutable areas to your jobs from that side since you indicate Arlington would still be a haul.  And there seems to be more space in some areas of Maryland.  Deal with your daily lifestyle woes now before children.....[/quote]

[b]It feels so great to hear someone else say how awful our situation is.[/b] I feel so isolated from my DC peers and am taken out of the city every day after work after a grueling 1.5 hours in traffic. I have no friends! I am cooped up in our apartment all the time. No one comes to visit us because we're so far away from everyone. I do NOT want this life before we have children.  I feel like I'm going to get a nervous breakdown![/quote]
OP, sadly the awfulness of your situation isn't the distance from the city.  You can make friends and go places in the suburbs but you seem to want to avoid the real issue.  You and your DH aren't compatible and you don't seem to know how to make friends and/or entertain yourself.  Stop looking for people to validate your thoughts on DCUM and look in the mirror.[/quote]

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