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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I find that just being honest and open to women is a pretty perfect way to go.  Let her see how you are vulnerable.  If she doesn't like that, she'll move on.  At that point, it is no loss for you.

You need to find someone that you feel comfortable with so that you can be completely yourself.

Remember, you are not trying to find a replacement for your wife.  You are looking for someone else who makes you happy and puts a smile on your face. You have to just get out there and try.  You may have to date a lot of people before meeting the one.  You will have some short term relationships in all likelihood before you find the right person.

Above all, stop feeling guilty about this.  If your wife loved you deeply, I am sure that she would want you to be happy.  You are not diminishing your love for her by dating someone new.[/quote]

Best post here.

Op you are allowed to be happy again and you are allowed to fall in love again.
app is right that you should probably date around a bit. You were very blessed the first time around to find love so quickly most people have to do more work. It's okay if things don't work out with this one or the next.

You are also not cheating on your wife it's okay for you to kiss or have sex with another woman.

I'm  sure your wife wants you to be happy here on earth. You don't mention children so I assume you don't have any . Do you want kids?  Time to think of your future . Your wife and what you had will always be part of you, and seeking and eventually finding love again doesn't lessen what you and your wife had.
It's okay to keep living, op. Hugs.[/quote]

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