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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again.

I get what you mean, PP, about the wife / child being an abstract, but I'm the same age as the wife and my child is the same age as their child, so I would hope that she could empathize a little more.

Also, I get that she was dumped in a shitty way, but they've been dating for one month.  I have ketchup in my fridge older than that.[/quote]

A college professor once told her that young women are flattered when older men show interest and think it's because they are so mature. She warned that it's usually that the man is immature. Maybe by framing it to her perspective rather than yours, she'll see him for the loser he is. Of course he's putting forth his best for her, but it's not who he is. He's a jerk who will abandon a commitment. She'll see his warts down the road. THIS is what you want to spare her. If he were really the man he professes to be, he would already have been done with his wife and would have cleared the way for a new relationship. It's NOT his circumstance, it's his character. You're on her side in this, OP. Hopefully she'll see that.
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