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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You forgot to tell her the most important things. One, the relationship has started out on a lie and he will lie to her with ease in the future. Two, the lack of thought and empathy he displays for his child and family, will soon enough rear its head in her relationship with him. Three, even if his marriage was dead, he comes with a lot of baggage and has had no time to process or reflect.

I would stop the moralizing and try to give her some valuable advice.
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Well, yes.  It is his complete lack of character combined with her lack of empathy for the young wife and small children of this man and her inability to see this guy for what he really is and how he USED her.

It's just such a mistake on so many levels.  If the guy was up front about it all and was legally separated that would be more understandable.  But this guy LIED big time.[/quote]

OP again.

I agree completely, PP.  So, she is saying, so if we're in love and he does leave his wife, then I can date him, right?  She just doesn't get it.  What started out with in lies and deceit, will never be good and he'll eventually do the same to her.  Not to mention that she will then have played a role in breaking up this family.  I don't blame her for not knowing.  It's only been a month.  I can understand being young and naive and not seeing the signs for one month.  But now that she knows, in my opinion, it is inexcusable to even so much as talk to him.

I posted on this board because I am truly having a hard time sitting in the same room as her without wanting to talk some sense into her.  We don't live together, but we live in the same neighborhood and we see each other all the time.[/quote]

You are making this just a bit too much about you. She is very young and the fact that she is discussing this with you tells me she is trying to process it. [b]She has a connection with the guy, emotions are involved, and it's actually perfectly normal to think maybe it can work[/b]. You need to be firm with her, but also loving. The most important thing right now is to get her disentangled from this mess. [/quote]

After one month of dating?  Really?[/quote]

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