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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are getting a lot of unfair comments.  My wife is a SAHM.  A lot of women become SAHMs without knowing it is a choice they would make when they are single.  My DW is a lawyer, so she has earning power.

The number 1 factor is YOUR income.  You need to make a lot of money so your future wife's decision whether SHE wants to stay home is made without regard to money.  [/quote]
+ 1.

Most women want to stay home but can't because their spouses do not earn enough.[/quote]

Ooh, please link to the source for your statement that "most women want to stay home." I'd love to see it![/quote]

Check out the stats on SAHMs. It is U shaped which means it goes up tremendously once the person with a job starts making a lot of money (say, 500k +). Rich wives have always opted to do their own thing when they can. Some have "hobby" careers, like a little boutique, but they don't expect it to make any money. Some volunteer extensively.[/quote]

Thanks for looking at SAHMing so cynically. [b] My dad was a big law partner.  My mom SAHMd.  She made his career earning lots of money possible. [/b] She wasn't laying around eating bon bons.  She was busy taking us to schools, sports, monitoring homework, taking us to medical appointments, showing up for our events, hosting parties and playdates for us, paying bills, doing all the grocery shopping, meal planning, meal making, meal clean up, supervision of all household staff, maintenance of all family relationships, and being caretaker of all when my Dad traveled for work, hosting business associates, etc.  My mom worked as hard as my dad for his Big Law salary.  He never would have been able to put in the high number of billable hours required for Big Law partnership if my Mom hadn't been picking up the slack.  She's never been able to "do her own thing" unless she squeezed it into the little time she had when she wasn't serving her husband or kids.

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I am a BigLaw partner, my DW stays home, and I totally agree, she makes it possible for me to do what I do for the family[/quote]

I don't disagree with this.  I just don't think you function as equal partners in your household, which is not a relationship I'd want.  [/quote]

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