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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Op. Your dh was working, in grad school, had to care for 2 kids all by himself while you were sick. Pls put it in perspective. 1 hr a day was probably already hard to fit in. [/b]I know because I was on bedrest at the hospital for 3 months and my dh had to shoulder so much when I was gone. See things from his perspective.[/quote]

Ditto.  Did you actually expect him to drop his class and ignore his kids?  If so, you have unrealistic expectations.  Were you on death's doorstep?  If not, I wouldn't expect anymore than he already did.[/quote]

OP, I have to agree with the PPs. [b]You sound selfish. Yes, I realized that when some women get pregnant, it's all about them. Babymoon, gifts, shopping, etc. 
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I too was on bedrest and I appreciated DH coming to visit everyday even if it was for a short time. The situation was reversed couple of years later when DH was hospitalized for an illness. It was exhausting everyday, to leave work, drive in traffic to the hospital, find parking, visiting then going home, preparing dinner, taking care of DC. Repeat the next day. I think OP needs to grow up.[/quote]

You sound callous. This thread isn't about me feeling abandoned because we didn't have a babymoon or go shopping.[/quote]

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