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[quote=Anonymous]I can give you the perspective of when I was hospitalized for 10 days with bacterial meningitis. Sudden out of the blue acute crisis. We had a seven year old, both of us work full time. My DH came to the hospital every day but sometimes, in fact usually, for no more than an hour before or after work. I wanted and expected that most of his time would be spent with our child stabilizing her world and making sure the household was run, bills were paid, etc. I can't imagine the two of us spending 24/7 in a hospital room and letting everything go. Can I ask, OP -- is there another experience in your life that this experience is drawing memories from? Some other experience of "abandonment". Sometimes when I have a strong emotional reaction -- stronger than the experience really deserves -- I have to wonder whether I am reflecting something in the past I need to explore. If you have issues with abandonment, work on them.[/quote]
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