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[quote=Anonymous]Just be straightforward: "BIL, I don't like the way you talk to me or my kids. Stop it now." Better yet, have DH do it himself; if DH can't or won't do it after talking directly to DH, clarify to DH that you can and will do it. NEVER EVER let anyone -- IL or not -- undermine your parenting; it confuses the kids and is unfair to them. They need a clear direction of authority from their parents. ILs are merely guests in your home and your lives. Signed, DW for 20 years who knows how to stay happily married![/quote]
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