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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You paid for your first daughter to go to the UG school of HER choice. You are paying for second daughter to the UG school of HER choice. Sounds pretty equal to me. [/quote] Exactly. And, frankly, if your younger kid finds out that you paid for graduate school for her sibling, she might well be resentful, since you changed the terms of the agreement. Maybe she would have gone to a state school, too, if she knew that meant graduate school would be covered. In any case, I agree that making it about how much money you spent will teach your kids to keep score and set a bad precedent. You gave them the same thing--a fully funded college education. Save the money in case something happens such that one of them really needs the money (medical problems, etc.), rather than spending it now just to even out how many checks you've written. [/quote]
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