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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Another online dating vent, I suppose.  Every guy 45-55 says he is looking for someone fit.  They all seem to run or bike or hike or all three.

I consider myself thin-ish.  I would like to lose about 8 lbs.  If I do, this would put me on the very low end of normal weight for my height.  I am a solidly normal weight for my height now.

Do I run triathilons? No.  Would anyone in any way shape or form call me fat? No.  Will my poor c-section cut abs and mild diastasis recti ever look like a supermodel's abs? No.  Do I spend hours in the gym every day? No. Because working.

So do I say I am of "average" build and skip the guys seeking someone fit? Or not?[/quote]

OP, someone who does triathlons devotes a significant amount of time and resources to that activity.  It's not a priority for you to go to the gym.  There's nothing wrong with that, but it could cause a lot of tension later.  But then again lots of things cause tension, so it's just a possible challenge to compatibility.

I work FT and have two small children and am really into weightlifting.  It works because DH is supportive and would never resent the time I spend at the gym.  If DH didn't think it was important, we'd have a problem. [/quote]

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