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[quote=Anonymous]We have a similar situation in my head Shane's family. The child being helped was treated way way worse in childhood so I wonder how f there is some guilt associated with the d vision.

In the face nap analysis, we are so so much better off because we stand on our own feet and have to learn to make better financial decisions as a result. The sib getting a handout has never had to get their act together and has a worse life because of it. So I think the gifting is a major stake because it hurts the giftee but we are not jealous about the unfairness.

I think the PP who said there is probably something else in your past that makes you see this a certain way is onto something. If you talk to a therapist for a few sessions I bet you will get to the bottom of it and feel a lot better about the situation.

You do have an amazing income and life. Be so happy with that. The rest is not reAlly your business.

I asked my own kids this question recently- 10 and 13- and said everything should. E exactly equal (10) and the other said resources should. be given according to need, ie a teacher kid should get more than a big law kid. I thought that was interesting. Not sure how my husband and will proceed but good to talk about it openly with our kids.

Good luck OP. [/quote]

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