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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a mid 50's male.  While I am not interested in dating anyone (as I am married), what I bring to the table is $$$$.  I have much more money than almost any 20 something.  I also know who I am, which some women find attractive.

[b]I also know how to please a woman: she would be satisfied[/b].  Many 20 somethings do not.

So, the 20 somethings might look better than me, sure. But, I can take her out for a nice time.  Oh, and I will fall alseep by 10, so she can go out partying with her friends or other guys and I won't care.[/quote]

Please don't delude yourself. Unless you look like George Clooney, the initial attraction/spark just isn't there. You can have all the moves and technique and experience, but without the actual chemical/magnetic draw, it just isn't there.

But yes, some women can mentally check out for 20 minutes for the right price/security.
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I don't know...a good sense of humor and intellect is a really important part of the spark.  If the guy is just plain dumb and superficial it can only go so far no matter how hot his body is - it's fun while it lasts.  Certainly, an older guy could be extremely attractive in a total package sort of way.

But usually the older guys who are secure and attractive in a total package type of way..just aren't that aren't interested in being romantically involved with such very young women.  I know that there are exceptions to this of course. But a relationship based on this person being young/hot and that person having money/lavishing attention are usually not that solid to begin with.

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I have noticed this.  I am a 50 something male, and when I joke, people want to me around me, even young people.  I am trying to get a hall pass that basically says anytime a hot 20something wants me, I can do it.  Wife is disagreeable.  But, when we got married, there was an understanding: if meg ryan wanted me, I could go, and if george clooney wanted her she could go.  No guilt....

Oh well, the plumbing probably would not work anyway...and Viagra/cealis is not an option for me...damn nitro...[/quote]

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