Anonymous wrote:I'm a 53 year old woman and have recently dated a couple of men just shy of 40. I think a 15 year age gap is doable, but 25 would be too much for me.
The hard part about doing someone so much younger than you is that you constantly are aware of how old you are. I can match the younger guys in terms of energy level, etc., but I can't turn back the clock.
Unfortunately, a lot of 50 year old men are not interested in 50 year old women.
Anonymous wrote:I'm a 53 year old woman and have recently dated a couple of men just shy of 40. I think a 15 year age gap is doable, but 25 would be too much for me.
The hard part about doing someone so much younger than you is that you constantly are aware of how old you are. I can match the younger guys in terms of energy level, etc., but I can't turn back the clock.
Unfortunately, a lot of 50 year old men are not interested in 50 year old women.
Anonymous wrote:For some reason this thread reminds me of this very entertaining GQ article on Sugar Daddies and the "transactional love economy."
http://www.gq.com/story/sugar-daddies-explained
"Do you ever see a super-old, super-rich guy out on the town with a super-young girl who's super out of his league and wonder, how the hell did that happen? This is how it happened. Taffy Brodesser-Akner investigates the bold new transactional-love economy."
Anonymous wrote:I do not see a problem...they could help set your iPhone and printer.
Anonymous wrote:I'm a 53 year old woman and have recently dated a couple of men just shy of 40. I think a 15 year age gap is doable, but 25 would be too much for me.
The hard part about doing someone so much younger than you is that you constantly are aware of how old you are. I can match the younger guys in terms of energy level, etc., but I can't turn back the clock.
Unfortunately, a lot of 50 year old men are not interested in 50 year old women.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am a mid 50's male. While I am not interested in dating anyone (as I am married), what I bring to the table is $$$$. I have much more money than almost any 20 something. I also know who I am, which some women find attractive.
I also know how to please a woman: she would be satisfied. Many 20 somethings do not.
So, the 20 somethings might look better than me, sure. But, I can take her out for a nice time. Oh, and I will fall alseep by 10, so she can go out partying with her friends or other guys and I won't care.
Please don't delude yourself. Unless you look like George Clooney, the initial attraction/spark just isn't there. You can have all the moves and technique and experience, but without the actual chemical/magnetic draw, it just isn't there.
But yes, some women can mentally check out for 20 minutes for the right price/security.
I don't know...a good sense of humor and intellect is a really important part of the spark. If the guy is just plain dumb and superficial it can only go so far no matter how hot his body is - it's fun while it lasts. Certainly, an older guy could be extremely attractive in a total package sort of way.
But usually the older guys who are secure and attractive in a total package type of way..just aren't that aren't interested in being romantically involved with such very young women. I know that there are exceptions to this of course. But a relationship based on this person being young/hot and that person having money/lavishing attention are usually not that solid to begin with.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am a mid 50's male. While I am not interested in dating anyone (as I am married), what I bring to the table is $$$$. I have much more money than almost any 20 something. I also know who I am, which some women find attractive.
I also know how to please a woman: she would be satisfied. Many 20 somethings do not.
So, the 20 somethings might look better than me, sure. But, I can take her out for a nice time. Oh, and I will fall alseep by 10, so she can go out partying with her friends or other guys and I won't care.
Please don't delude yourself. Unless you look like George Clooney, the initial attraction/spark just isn't there. You can have all the moves and technique and experience, but without the actual chemical/magnetic draw, it just isn't there.
But yes, some women can mentally check out for 20 minutes for the right price/security.
I don't know...a good sense of humor and intellect is a really important part of the spark. If the guy is just plain dumb and superficial it can only go so far no matter how hot his body is - it's fun while it lasts. Certainly, an older guy could be extremely attractive in a total package sort of way.
But usually the older guys who are secure and attractive in a total package type of way..just aren't that aren't interested in being romantically involved with such very young women. I know that there are exceptions to this of course. But a relationship based on this person being young/hot and that person having money/lavishing attention are usually not that solid to begin with.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am a mid 50's male. While I am not interested in dating anyone (as I am married), what I bring to the table is $$$$. I have much more money than almost any 20 something. I also know who I am, which some women find attractive.
I also know how to please a woman: she would be satisfied. Many 20 somethings do not.
So, the 20 somethings might look better than me, sure. But, I can take her out for a nice time. Oh, and I will fall alseep by 10, so she can go out partying with her friends or other guys and I won't care.
Please don't delude yourself. Unless you look like George Clooney, the initial attraction/spark just isn't there. You can have all the moves and technique and experience, but without the actual chemical/magnetic draw, it just isn't there.
But yes, some women can mentally check out for 20 minutes for the right price/security.