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Reply to "Moving out with two kids for trial separation, do i need a lawyer first?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can't just take the baby. First of all, don't think a good divorce attorney wouldn't pounce on you leaving one kid with the abuser (if you try to bring that up) while removing yourself and one child. Second, your kid is 9. If he puts 2 and 2 together, that you left with the baby to prepare for a split, think how it makes him feel that you left him behind. You cannot take one child. [/quote] Leaving your older child behind, sets the stage for your DH to try and prevent you from taking him later. I'd take both kids for a long weekend, and during that weekend, visit an attorney or the women's center. If you really need alone time, I'd go some place like Great Wolf Lodge where your older child will be occupied most of the time. Why are you thinking of leaving the older child?[/quote]
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