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[quote=Anonymous]I'm on the other side of this. I'm 38 weeks pregnant, and am still hosting my ILs/husband's cousin/husband's aunt for Christmas. (I can't travel.) Not only am I getting grief for the fact that we're "making" everyone come to our house as I'm not supposed to be too far from our hospital (they are all retired or in grad school, in the cousin's case, with no work obligations; only a 4-hour drive), but for the duration. I've only invited them for Christmas Eve through the day after Christmas. I'm so horrible, cooking and cleaning and entertaining people while I have a toddler and am *38 weeks.* AND my ILs are coming back shortly after New Year's to see the new baby. So you can't win. Some people, like OP, just want and want and want, with no regard for the preferences or life circumstances or other people. I've given up trying to please and just do what I can do as politely as possible. [/quote]
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