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[quote=Anonymous]I completely get how you feel OP.  I went through years of treatments to have my first that included surgery and IVF.  I had 3 embryos left and recently did a series of FETs that failed and have nothing left.  It was awful and we are done.  Going through it took me right back to that terrible place before I had my daughter.  Time wise it wasn't a big deal but those injections really screw with your body and the emotional aspect is hard.  It was easy for me when all I had to worry about was work but when you're taking care of a toddler it's a whole different ballgame.  You can't spend half the day on the couch depressed about bad news or watching tv to take your mind off of it.  I also was really scared about problems with the baby this time around.  Even though they were frozen I knew each time they were getting lower quality and the last one they put in actually looked mangled.  Also, I felt like at my age (approaching 40) carrying the baby to term was going to be more difficult and risky.  The mentality of have a child at all costs is gone when you already have a child to take care of. [/quote]

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