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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm a first wife who has a decent relationship with my ex-in-laws after divorce. They are my daughter's family. They will always be her family, the same way that I will always be her family and my family will always be her family.

Your husband's parents are not slighting you. They are continuing to have a relationship with their granddaughter, regardless of whether she's with her mom or her dad. That's a good thing for her. If this was a situation where they were inviting your stepdaughter and her mom INSTEAD of you and your kids, that would be another story, but that's not what's going on.

The only issue right now is that[b] this is happening behind your backs[/b]. I don't think it's fair for your husband to prohibit his parents from inviting his daughter to family holidays, but given that he did this and your MIL presumably agreed to it, I think it's fairly shabby of her to turn around and invite them anyway. I think your stance should be that they are welcome to spend time with your stepdaughter when you're not around, but you would like a head's up that she will be there for TG/Xmas/whatever, and leave it at that. [/quote]

If it's on Facebook, it's not really happening behind their backs, is it? [/quote]

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