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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I never said anything about being non-judgmental with YOU. I can understand weight issues being detrimental to attraction, but to love? Seriously? You love your wife less because she's fat? That seems very shallow and cold to me and is not a feeling I relate to on any level.[/quote]

Who said anything about not loving her anymore?  I said I wasn't attracted but love her very much.

[quote=Anonymous]As for your constructive question, about how to discuss, what I have seen suggested is not focusing on your lack of attraction, but on the increased attraction that would result from her being in shape. "I think it's so sexy when you're fit and strong" for example. If weight is physically impacting someone's sex life (like, one partner too fat to be on top, or one partner getting exhausted and out of breath from basic sexual activity), I would mention that I was very concerned that weight gain had impacted our sex life and offer to help with an exercise program so that we can get back to being frisky.[/quote]

Thank goodness it's not that bad...[/quote]

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